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June 22, 2016

Wedding Wednesday // Our Wedding Planner!

Ruffled - photo by Nicoll's Wedding Photography http://ruffledblog.com/whimsical-garden-wedding-ideas
image via Everly Event Planning & Design

You guys – I’m so excited about today’s post! Mostly because I feel like it has been a long time coming, but also because I spent so much time trying to find the perfect person to work with {and trust!} for my big day, and I’m just so excited to introduce her to you all. For those of you who don’t know, I was born and raised in New Orleans, and our wedding reception will actually be held in the house that I grew up in! The house has so much character, and is a great place for entertaining, but I knew I wanted to work with somebody who could take the bones of the house {and yard!} and turn it into something magical. I knew there would be unique challenges from throwing such a large event in a home, and I needed someone who would be sweet but authoritative, knowledgeable, and most importantly — extremely organized. Enter Krystle. As soon as I spoke with Krystle I knew she was the one for the job. She is a born & raised New Orleanian, and super knowledgeable about the industry. She was sweet, and we seemed to hit it off as soon as we met! I just felt comfortable with her {and thats almost more important than anything else!}

Without saying too much more – I wanted Krystle to have a little space to tell you guys a little about herself. I also jotted down some questions that I had when interviewing planners, and had Krystle answer them for us! I hope you find them as helpful as I did!

Krystle, let’s start off with a little bit of your background! How long have you been in the business? How did you know you wanted to be a wedding planner? What are you favorite parts about being a wedding planner?

Gosh, growing up I always had a hunch, but after interning with a luxury event planning company throughout my senior year of college, I knew that I was destined for a career in planning and design! It was with five years of combined training and professional experience as an Events Manager and In-House Wedding Planner that, in early 2015, Everly Event Planning & Design, a New Orleans-based event and wedding planning Company was born to satisfy my entrepreneurial yearning and indulge my passion for connecting and creating on a grand scale. It’s so exciting to have started my own business in something I’m so passionate about – I adore listening to peoples’ stories, creating and inspiring.
I’m seriously passionate about love, life and people; so, I absolutely LOVE what I do. I consider myself a storyteller- enthusiastically sharing love stories through beautifully bespoke events! Don’t get me wrong, being a wedding planner isn’t all rainbows and butterflies like people often assume: the gig comes with a lot of pressure and responsibility. Two people {and their families!} are trusting YOU to make sure that what they believe is the most important day of their lives, comes to fruition exactly as incredibly as they’ve envisioned it to in their heads. With that being said, it is OH-so rewarding to hear the bride and groom tell you at the end of the day, and again on every anniversary, that their wedding was a dream and that they couldn’t have pulled it off without you. My heart literally skips a beat when I receive a Christmas card from a past client with a picture from their wedding day on it. That’s my favorite aspect of the job: Connecting with clients so genuinely that they turn into friends {who send Christmas cards!} and so closely that I’m able to bring their vision to life as precisely as they’ve imagined!

What are the top 5 things brides should ask their wedding planner?

Other than the obvious “How much and what does that include?”, I believe brides should be sure to ask:

  1. Will YOU, the planner, be there on my wedding day?
  2. How long will you {or your representative} be there for on my wedding day? 
  3. How many events do you take in one day?
  4. What are your office hours {i.e. when will you respond to email, phone calls, etc.}
  5. Will I be collaborating with you directly, with other members of your team, or a mixture of both during the planning process?

How should I know when I’ve found the right planner for me? 

I’m a firm believer that connection is key! You can have the most beautiful vision in the world and the planner can be the most talented person in the biz,  but if y’all don’t genuinely like each other… well, it’s just not going to be a smooth or fun process. And, of course, that’s the whole point of hiring a wedding planner: to make the wedding planning process as carefree and enjoyable as possible for you! Do you actually want to hang out with this person? Is conversation easy? Do y’all laugh like friends and talk about your lives or is it very formal and strictly business? If y’all “click” and you’re confident in being able to not only develop the working relationship you would expect from your planner, but a friendship… you’ve probably found the right one!

Let’s talk about pricing (in general!) How do I know how much it will cost? Is there a flat feee? Is it priced out per hour? What do you think is best? 

Different planners offer different services and price their services different ways! Try saying that 10x fast! Some planners charge a flat fee while others opt for a flat fee plus a percentage of your vendor contracts. While a flat fee is a little more outrightly clear for budget purposes, if your planner is charging a percentage he/she should provide you with an estimate early on in the planning process so that you have an idea of what to expect overall. Generally, though, you should assume that the more complex your wedding day details, the higher the planning/design fee. For example, my fee would not be the same for a simple 50 guest buffet reception as an elaborate 300 guest sit-down dinner. A good rule of thumb is to expect the cost of your planner to be about 10% of your budget for full planning/design.

How many ‘types’ of wedding planners are there? (i.e., wedding consultant, coordinator, producer, stylist, architect….they often wear so many hats!)

Oh gosh, I probably couldn’t tell you all of the different types of planners out there! On one hand niche markets are popping up in the wedding planning industry all of the time. On the other hand, there are a handful of fancy titles us wedding planners use that are actually synonymous with each other. There certainly is a difference, though, between: A) Somebody who only plans/coordinates weddings {Think: logistics only}, B) Somebody who only style/designs weddings and C) Somebody who does both. Make sure that your “planner’s” abilities and offerings are inline with your needs! This should all be clearly outlined in the provider’s package information.

One common misconception, though, is that a couple doesn’t need to hire a planner if their wedding venue has a coordinator. An independent wedding planner and an in-house venue coordinator are very different. Ultimately, the venue coordinator is there to oversee the operations of the venue only {food and beverage stations if in-house catering, venue staff, the lights are on, the air is working, etc.} while the wedding planner is there to oversee your entire event from start to finish- to take care of YOU and make sure all aspects of your vision are carried out correctly. Take all of the preliminary planning out of it, on the day-of alone, the wedding planner will: Prompt the bride and groom of important moments {special dances, cake cutting, toasts, etc.}, oversee setup of rental items and décor according to design plans {tables, chairs, linens}, be the point of contact for outside vendors, distribute remaining balances and tips to outside vendors, and oversee teardown {including making sure that all of your gifts and personal items don’t get left behind!}. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg!

What are the most important ‘contract’ questions? What should I be on the lookout for?

It’s important to know what, if heaven forbid, your planner cannot make your wedding {he/she falls ill, has a personal emergency, etc.}, what happens? Will you get a replacement planner? Will you get a partial or full refund?

Also, if your chosen package includes a specific number of design hours, working hours on the wedding day or anything of the sort – what is the hourly rate if additional hours are needed?

Are there any major trends you are seeing these days that you love? What about ones that you hate?

I LOVE that couples are starting to move away from a reception layout based solely on the standard large round tables and are instead opting for either farm/rectangular tables or a mix of long tables and round tables. This creates a much more inviting, intimate vibe, in my opinion! Burlap and chevron seem to be a thing of the past now and I can’t say I’m sad about that! Sorry!

What are your top tips for couples planning their big day?  

Don’t sweat the small stuff and remember that, at the end of the day, your wedding is about marrying your best friend. SO cliche, I know… but so true!! Repeat after me: My guests will never know if I was supposed to have personalized napkins at the bar or not. Don’t get me wrong: I am ALL about the personal details; but, I’ve seen couple’s get so focused on the “look” of their ceremony/reception that on the wedding day, they’re more concerned with knowing the candles are in the right place than remembering their vows. The wedding day goes by so quickly; make the most of it by trusting your planner to take care of all of the details, being in the moment and allowing yourself to have FUN!

Last but not least, I’m so excited to show y’all some of Krystle’s latest work {here & here & below!} – she is so insanely talented, and I can’t wait to see how she helps execute our big day! Thank you so much to Krystle for giving us such great insight and for being as sweet as always! 

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xx

B

 

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June 15, 2016

Wedding Tradtions

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I’ve always loved {and been fascinated by} traditions. Growing up in New Orleans, we were always surrounded by them. Whether it was the way we pronounce certain words or the way we all grew up knowing that you eat red beans & rice on Mondays – there is something so special about long standing traditions.  So when my mom recently sent me a tear out from Real Simple about Wedding Traditions, I knew I had to share it with you all.

I couldn’t find the actual snippet online, so I’ve transcribed it below!

WEDDING TRADITIONS

Fathers used to give away the bride — literally — in exchange for something else. What else set the stage for old, new, borrowed, and blue? Walk with us down the aisle of history and find out!

13th Century

The Catholic Church declares that a wedding must be officiated by a priest. Before this, marriage was often a contractual agreement between the groom and the bride’s father and usually included the exchange of land or money.

phew! so glad we’ve come away from this! 

14th – 15th Centuries

In England, weddings are more rowdy than romantic, says Stephanie Coontz, Ph.D., the author of Marriage, a History. Guests tear at the bride’s dress, since snagging a scrap is considered good luck. Eventually, to keep the gown intact, a new ritual is born: The bride throws her bouquet from a distance, while the groom tosses her garter.

1840

White gowns are a must have after Britain’s Queen Victoria wears one to wed Prince Albert. Previously, royalty donned garments of ermine, purple velvet, and gold thread. In india, white is the color of mourning, which makes wearing it a no-no for brides.

1858

Brides get their theme music. Like her mom with the radical white gown 18 years before, Princess Victoria Starts a super-trend when she walks down the aisle after her nuptials to Felix Mendelssohn’s “Wedding March.”

1933

Thanks to its same-day wedding-license policy, Las Vegas becomes “the Marriage Capital of the World” when Reverend J.D. Foster opens a chapel for lovebirds to elope.

Late 1930s to 1940s

Women are the only ones putting a ring on it until World Ward II, when soldiers fighting overseas starts wearing wedding bands as loving reminders of the wives they left behind. For centuries, it was believed that the vena amoris (vein of love), in the fourth finger of the left hand, lead directly to the heart.

Not going to lie…..I believed that about the vena amoris until right this moment!

1980s

Inspired by the lavish wedding of Diana, Princess of Wales, many start thinking bigger for their own nuptials. Bridal magazines and wedding marketers help sell the princess-for-a-day fantasy, and the industry swells to epic proportions in the 2000s.

2009 to 2010

Social media ushers in a new way to share the love, including choreographed dances broadcast on YouTube, Pinterest boards on everything from flowers to favors, and photos posted on Instagram and Facebook in the moment. These days, 50% of couples create personalized hashtags for weddings.

I can’t imagine a wedding these days without a hashtag – it’s the best way to share and see photos from start to finish!

2016

The Latest tradition seems to be bucking tradition. WeddingWire’s recent survey notes that 26% of couples have mixed gender wedding parties (as in “groom ladies” and “bridesmen”), and 37% opt to be married by a friend rather than a religious officiant.

Above article quoted from Real Simple, June 2016 Issue

I knew I wanted to incorporate a few traditions into our wedding, and without giving too much away – I’ve numbered off a few of my favorite New Orleans wedding traditions below.

The Second Line

The Cake Pulls

Linen, seersucker or any light colored suit for the grooms party

A More Silly Grooms cake

Burying the Bourbon

I hope you all have a wonderful Wednesday, and I can’t wait to show you guys more! xx

Filed Under: Wedding

May 25, 2016

Wedding Wednesday // White Dress

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I went through {what felt like} hundreds of pages of white dresses searching for the perfect dress to wear to my first engagement party. Although I ended up choosing a different dress than this one {it was raining the night of our party & white silk = no bueno for rain!}, I still couldn’t let this one go. I ended up keeping it just in case – how beautiful would it be for a rehearsal dinner? Engagement photos? I had eyed this dress for so long, and when I finally bit the bullet, I was so excited to see it in person. The way the dress flows and the delicate peplum at the bottom are so elegant. I felt like a dream just taking these photos!

photos: stephanie drenka

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April 20, 2016

Wedding Wednesday // The Most Beautiful White Lace Dress

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Dress: Modcloth cordially delighted lace dress c/o // shoes: Flourishing courage heel c/o // earrings: On drop of the world earrings c/o // sunglasses: celine 41050 sunglasses

Seriously, how beautiful is this dress? I can’t get over the incredible detail of the material, and how well made the dress is overall {especially for the price!} This dress is similar to dresses that are going for $700+, and I feel lucky to have found something so beautiful for 1/4 the price! The shape is so lady like and classic, and I especially love the little collar detail.  I wanted to keep the overall look sweet so I paired it with these light turquoise heels and pretty drop earrings.

Modcloth has the most beautiful white dress options in their wedding boutique – I’m seriously eyeing this dress for a shower I have coming up & this dress would be perfect for my bridal luncheon {how good would this be with a flower crown?} Swoon, this dress is super dreamy too! So many options, too little parties!

        photos: stephanie drenka

Thank you so much to Modcloth for partnering with me on this post!       

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